I don't think people really realize how damaging society's idiotic standard of beauty is to anyone who comes in contact with it. Not just bigger people, but thinner people too. It's like, if you're not completely 100% perfect, you're substandard, and who are they to tell anyone that?
I don't understand how people can be so superficial. A person's body shape or size is only a very very tiny part of who they really are, so who cares what the package looks like...unless you're one of those weirdos who saves the wrapping paper from your gifts..that's just creepy and wrong.
Gods forbid you even talk about superficiality in the gay community... ::shudder::